Yes. Why is happiness always a post script for most of us? Do we take important decisions in life keeping our own happiness in mind, or it is always an after-thought? For a moment, let us keep aside, all Facebooks and Instagrams and Twitters and what as per them is the definition of ‘real happiness’. Let’s ask ourselves, when was the last time our happiness was a constant and not a variable that changed with the situations we were thrown in. Your state of well-being is often a manifestation of your thoughts more than your action. So, we need to ‘think’ happy before we ‘take action’ to be happy.
But do we think about what we think?
How many of us wake up with an affirmation, “I will be happy today”? I am sure not too many.
Life often throws us lemons, we just got to slice it into halves and savor the lemonade. And the lemonade isn’t always sweet!
You are not happy because everything is good, you are in a happy state when you see good in everything. So, the next time, you find yourself in a deep situation, you got to pull back your focus on making yourself happy first before anything else. Whether it is playing with a pet, or buying food for street children, gulping a spoonful of your favorite ice-cream, or shaking a leg on your favorite track or just looking yourself into the mirror, do what it takes to do just that. Because that will be the epitome of sheer fulfillment of your inner self.
Before thinking what the naysayers would think, you ought to feel proud of yourself because darn, by being happy, you have negated the toxicity they brought with them.
Nothing attracts than law of attraction. So, obviously, the more time you invest in thinking negative situations, the more you attract negative people, negative emotions and the magnitude of negativity
So beautifully expressed ! Rightly said It's the little things in life which gives you real happiness. It cannot be owned or earned. For me happiness is an experience of living every moment of life with love, grace & gratitude 🙏.
Perfect example of being happy is to do MORE of what makes you happy! So keep writing ✍ such realistic n inspiring stuff! You never know in whose story your words will be placed & in whose heart your words will leave the footprints 👣
Much love 💕
It feels like your write ups are made to instill positivity. It's hard to understand how you manage to give such meaningful words to the emotions that everyone can connect to... Beautiful post! Keep spreading smiles!
Being happy is like painting a picture of your choice, no templates, instructions or guidelines. It’s your own free will & it starts with feeling the feeling of being happy.
No matter what it is, you need to feel the feeling of the happiness you would feel when you’re in that state.
The universe only reciprocates in the similar frequency of your thoughts. It doesn’t understand negative or positive. It corresponds in the same vein as your own thoughts are.
The easiest way to be happy is by choosing to be happy.